I’m diagnosing myself to have an adjustment disorder.
It’s a term Psyc loves to used when they can’t figure out what is wrong. I donno what is wrong with me anymore huhuhu..
I haven’t brag about my MO life right? I enjoy it at first, later struggle with it, then love it, then hate it, regret it, grateful of it.. owh A MIX FEELINGS! For your info, I started my MOship last Disember. Almost 1/2 year, time sure flies. Remember those things i said before on how i hate my MOs when i was a HO and pledge not be like them? Ironically, i found myself more n more like them! I do hate myself for it š¦
That day i scolded a HO for not doing her morning round, for not updating the investigation charts, for not carried out my plans, for not sending the cultures..bla..bla.. endless. I got angry for her ‘slow reaction’ and tortoise like attitude. I keep comparing her to myself “if i can get it done why couldn’t you?”. When i share my misery with a good friend she just said these 4 words “They are NOT YOU” which I agree. I admit different people react and do things differently. And I happen to have a HO who is completely opposite of me who likes to make my life miserable! I already give up the word ‘perfect’. I now lower my expectation to ‘just get it done’. Even that simple wish cannot beĀ fulfilled. Now i know why my MOs dulu-dulu hate their HOs. Coz now I hate them all !!
Attitude is the essence of medical practice. If you got a right attitude, you will survive. General medicine is scary. We got the highest admission rate per day, the highest ICU/HDU occupants, the highest of everything. From mistakes to complaints to negligence. You have to have an attitude that canĀ withholdĀ those pressures. Willing to work long hours, finish all the clerkings, discharges, prescriptions etc..etc.. (it’s never finish you know), develop soft skills, getting angry at, being shouted at (i mean by patients and the relatives), and most importantly to try to be as thorough as possible on the job to avoid mistakes that could possibly take someone’s life. General medicine covers >80% of what we learn in medical school. The only time for us, to put our knowledge into practice esp HOs are during the 4 months Housemanship rotation in medical department.Ā I remember what my previous boss Dr. Chua said, “as a doctor your knowledge and medical management must be good. Because no matter how high you go, even if you become a surgeon, oncologist, neurologist etc.. at the end you’re a doctor and as a doctor you are expected to know how to manage a simple case like hypertension and diabetes”.Ā I am so frustrated when those young doctors taking the jobs for granted. I’d been there. I was a HO before. Don’t tell me that the workloads are too much to bear. Get out of my ward if you thought of saying that! My apologies to those who have broken down emotionally, mentally, spiritually and need a few weeks off, see a shrink, on anxiolytics, anti depressants…… oh how medicine must be cruel to you guys. But when you see ‘it’ from where i stand.. from my small eyes š … general medicine is fun, challenging and 100% rewarding if you have the right attitude. I mean it. I am here am I?
I am trying my best to be a good medical officer. Giving advice and guidance to the young ones. But if they keep irritate me with their blank ‘i donno what to do’ stares, annoying giggles after serious warning from specialists, mistakes here and there…..
the answer is :Ā Get out of my ward. As simple as that. HO mistakes = MO responsibilty.